I read recently you are what you attend to. In other words, pay attention to your life, your moods, what makes you happy, what makes you sad...
Pedro Arrupe SJ (1907-91) put it like this:
Nothing is more practical than
finding God, than falling in love
in a quite absolute, final way.
What you are in love with,
what seizes your imagination, will affect everything.
It will decide what will get you out of bed in the morning,
what you do with your evenings,
how you spend your weekend,
what you read, whom you know,
what breaks your heart,
and what amazes you with joy and gratitude.
Fall in love, stay in love,
and it will decide everything.
or as Jesus said. Blessed, happy are you who are…….